5 Simple strategies for resolving conflict in your classroom
Each morning, my class began with a brief reflection of what happened the previous day, what to expect for the day ahead, and what to do when we encounter conflicts in class. This daily ritual set a positive tone for the day’s classroom interaction. And while we discussed what to do if we had conflict, we often used the example of chess as a metaphor. Chess allows students to think critically and strategically, and to ask, “How does this move affect me?” and “What can I do in this move that sets me up for success?” It is a nonthreatening way to consider conflict, and it made our classroom discussions much more meaningful.
My students learned that, while conflict is a natural part of interaction, it must be addressed in a thoughtful, methodical way. I explicitly taught them how to use and test each of the following conflict resolution moves:
- Ignore - Do not acknowledge the distraction or offense
- Move - Separate yourself from the conflict
- Use an “I-Message” - Verbally address the offense. “I feel ________, when you _______ and I would like you to stop please.”
- Tell A Responsive Adult - Involve an adult that will support you in resolving the conflict
- Class Meeting - Put your issue on the agenda for a class meeting
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